15 strong signs to know when your guy is not meant to be!
January 4, 2023, By Falgir Editorial Staff
Table of contents:
Introduction
Why do people believe they are meant to be?
Poor communication is a big red flag!
Is he there for you when you need him?
You are never ever honest with one another!
He is absolutely always on the edge.
You doubt if he is the right guy for you most of the time.
He never respects you or the things you love.
You have strong disagreements over important values.
Your mind is full of break-up thoughts all the time.
He is never delighted to know your friends and family.
It is very hard to be unique around him.
He is a big-time cheater.
Spending time with him is not exciting.
He is never a reliable and worthy friend.
He doesn't match what you want in a partner.
He easily makes you feel worthless all the time
15 strong signs to know when your guy is not meant to be!
Every day, people get out of relationships that are not meant to be for them. It is hard, but it's the cold-hearted truth! People fall in and out of love and relationships because it is human nature to look for a connection and are social creatures. We want to share our days and interests with someone special, someone who loves us and cares for us. So, We keep searching for that someone until we find them. Sometimes, on our way to finding love and connection, we make mistakes and fall for the one who is not meant to be. Why? It's simple. We take love from anywhere possible because we need it. Loving and being loved are essential concepts in our lives, so why not take it when someone comes along and offers it?Unfortunately, we cannot know we are with the wrong person until it hits us hard and breaks our hearts.
There are signs and hints that can help you get a better hold of your relationship before it's too late. You can keep them in mind and look back at them whenever you have second thoughts.
Why do people believe they are meant to be?
Before going any further into the signs presented in this article, ask yourself if you know what it means!
Is it destiny? Is it our own choice? Why do people believe in it?
When we refer to the term" Meant to be," it means we did what we could, but life, the universe, or fate were not ok with it. So, that is why it didn't work out the way it was meant to. We cannot certainly say if God or the universe has anything to do with our relationships, but we know things do not always turn out the way we want.
We can try all we want, but when something is not for us, there is no hope for it. That is why people refer to these things as meant to be, because if it was, why didn't it work out?
Here are the 15 strong signs to know when your guy is not meant to be!
1. Poor communication is a big red flag!
It is one thing to have little communication skills and work on them and another to have them and not use them.
One of the most crucial factors in a happy relationship is good communication. If your guy is not up to this and never tries to talk to you, things will get out of hand very soon. Talking and communicating make a relationship work. We talk through problems and disagreements. We talk through misunderstandings and so work on what we have.
When your partner never tries to improve his communication skills, and never talks to you to build a better connection, then maybe he is not meant for you!
2. Does he support you when you need him?
A big red flag that proves a relationship is not meant to be is the lack of support for each other! What is he there for if he does not support you and is not there for you when you need him? He is just like other people.
We call our partners the special someone because they should be so, supporting us in times of need.
You want a partner as excited about your goals and dreams as are you. Someone who grieves with you when you are going through a rough time and celebrates your happiness when you achieve your desires.
3. You are never ever honest with one another!
Another relationship factor is honesty! You can never have a healthy romantic life without being honest with each other. You cannot say someone who lies to you all the time is "meant to be".
If he lies, hides, and never shares stuff that he should share, then he’s not that into you.
This honesty goes both ways. If you think you cannot be honest because he can be judgmental or aggressive, will you live a happy life with him? How come you think he is the perfect one for you?
4. He is absolutely always on the edge.
Is he always angry and on edge? Should that worry you? Yes! Many people start romantic relationships with such men who show troublesome behavior. That is not acceptable! Many women experience domestic violence at the hands of their romantic partners. Someone they never thought would hurt them. But that's the world we live in.
Thus, if your guy is always getting angry over small things, shouts, and starts fighting, please step back and analyze everything.
It could be a sign your relationship could not work out with someone with a hot temper. Someone that is possibly going to hurt you in the future.
5. You doubt if he is the right guy for you most of the time.
You often ask yourself if he’s the right guy for you. You wonder if there is a future in this relationship. It is hard to imagine having a peaceful and dreamy life with him!
Well, then you know what to do? You know deep down that you are not meant for each other. If you cannot see a future and a happy life with him, something is really wrong then!
6. He never respects you or the things you love.
If your family members or your friends disrespect you, what will you do? Will you not defend yourself or argue with them? You sure will. Then how come you keep letting your partner disrespect you and get away with it?
Being disrespected is a reassuring sign of a wrong relationship. If your partner has no respect for your family, friends, interests, values, and privacy, then he is not the one.
Being respected for who you are and what you have in life is the most basic expectation you can have from your romantic partner.
7. You have strong disagreements over important values.
You can never find someone who agrees with you on any possible issue. That would be a very crazy expectation. But it is important to be with someone with the same thinking background and values. Otherwise, there will be many quarrels and misunderstandings on the way.
If you do not want to get married and have children, why would you waste your time with someone who wants to get married immediately and have many children?
If you believe in God and have many religious values, will you live with an atheist?
What if he wants to live in Paris and you love to settle down in New York? Why are you wasting your time then?
8. Your mind is full of break up thoughts all the time.
Are you constantly thinking about ending the relationship? Do you often think about being with other men? Then, it is a clear sign that you are not meant to be with your current partner.
If you were happy and content in your relationship, you would never think about being with other guys. You would never dare to think of breaking up with him since it would break your heart.
Now that you cannot help thinking about it, go on and do it, because you are with the wrong guy and in the wrong relationship.
9. He is never delighted to know your friends and family.
Your partner should try to build a happy relationship with your family and friends for the love of you, even when he is not interested in them!
If he never makes any worthwhile attempt to get to know them, then he is wrong for you, and probably not serious about the relationship.
Getting to know a partner's friends and family will make us closer to that person. If we are not eager to get closer to our partners, we will not bother with the next steps for sure.
10. It is hard to be unique around him.
You can be the best you can ever be around your partner. It is because the right person brings out the best in us. He accepts us as we are and embraces our uniqueness. We get to be comfortable around our romantic partners and discover the parts of ourselves nobody noticed before.
If you ever feel like you are frequently hiding who you really are from your guy, and trying to change yourself to please him, then maybe he’s not the right guy for you!
11. He is a big-time cheater.
You never want to be stuck with someone who cheats on you over and over. It is wrong, and it is the worst thing for you.
A partner like this ruins your trust and self-respect by questioning your worth and value.
First, you should respect your mind and body and break up with him. Next, how can you be someone who abuses you emotionally and sexually?
12. Spending time with him is not exciting.
Nothing is as exciting as the rush and desire to be with someone you love. If you do not have this in your relationship, something is wrong.
Maybe he is not the one you cannot wait to spend time with.
If you feel like going out with him is boring and count the minutes for your date to be over, rethink your relationship to see where you are!
13. He is never a reliable and worthy friend.
We build a healthy relationship on friendship and comfort. Your partner can be your best friend if he is the right guy.
As a friend, you should count on him and trust him to be there where you need him.
If you are not friends with each other and do not have the closeness and freedom people have around their friends, then he’s not the right guy for you.
Remember, your partner is first your friend in life and then your boyfriend!
14. He doesn't match what you want in a partner.
We all have the image and fantasy of the perfect guy in our minds. Someone who is the right person for us and we will be the happiest of people with them.
Well, looking at the guy you are with, does he match that image? Do you think this is it?
If not, then he is not for you! Not that you will find that exact fantasy guy, but you can be with someone who has a bit more resemblance to that image. Someone closer to the qualities you have in mind.
If the one you are with is not like what you always wanted, then please do yourself and him a favor and end it right there!
15. He easily makes you feel worthless all the time.
Does your special one make you pity yourself? Does he feel sorry for you? If yes, then he is not for you, and there is a chance he’s not that into you either.
How can we love someone and make them feel small?
One of the signs of a toxic relationship is when one of the partners belittles the other to dominate them. They keep insulting their partner so they will always obey them since they feel so small and worthless!
You get into a relationship to be loved, to feel better about yourself. Otherwise, that relationship is not meant to be!
By now, you must have some ideas on relationships and how they should be. There are many reasons why a relationship is not working, and you can always try to get to a better understanding by remembering these few signs.
If you see any red flags or behavior your gut tells you will cause problems, then listen to it and never ignore the signs.
We cannot make the best decision when we depend on the wrong person and love them. In such situations, you can always ask your close friends to help you since they know you and hopefully love you.
Sometimes you can make sure and talk to people who know the signs beyond our basic understanding. But remember, in the end, this is your partner, your life, and your decision. Make sure you know your worth and value. Do not hesitate to end something that is not making you happy. The bottom line is that your happiness matters the most in the world.
What’s next for your love life? Find out with a psychic love reading.
Have you ever been in the wrong relationship? Have you ever spent days and months with the wrong guy without noticing the signs? What did you do? Who helped you? How do you feel now? Please be kind enough to share your experiences with us here!
